I have decided to write a page about this because i think it is a common issue and i believe that allot of young girls (including myself) get confused when it comes to this certain subject. Like when you sit and constantly think to yourself “does he like me??”, or when you over think about every little movement or encounter you had with him to try and figure out if hes shown any signs that show that he likes you too.
Let me just make it clear to you that IF A GUY LIKES YOU, HE WILL PUT IN EFFORT, HE WILL SHOW YOU.Period.
yeah it is true that he may be too shy to confess to you the fact that he likes you, but he sure will act like it !!!
However some guys may say that they like you to your face, but don’t act like it at all, this either means that hes lying to you OR he really does like you but doesn't want to put in the required effort either way hes a LOSER and doesn't deserve to talk to you, unless he starts to show you that he likes you by his actions.
Remember you can always tell if a guy likes you by his ACTIONS not his “words” or what he tells you. Actions speak louder than words, and i don’t mean actions like when he watches you from a distance or if he says hi to you, i mean his ACTIONS like if he:
- Hangs out with you
- calls you
- calls you back when he says he would
- wants to see you
- doesn’t break his word to you
- wants to hear what you have to say
- and is generally interested in YOU
Signs of a player or a prick
Don’t be fooled by the looks he gives you…maybe hes after “something else” from you if you know what i mean. Don't think that just cos hes invited you to his house and shows you affection there it means that he likes you … why doesn't he show you this kind of affection outside of closed doors??
If he has your number and never calls you it means hes a PRICK and isn't worth your time. Trust me if he’s crazy about you like you are about him then he will call you.
If your always the one calling him or you feel like you are always the one chasing after him, or putting in all the effort then hes a PRICK and is never going to be worth your time. Don’t be an idiot be the smart one and stop chasing him.
Players are easy to spot. They “talk” about being in a relationship with you and being with you, and a future with you, but never actually do it. there all talk but no action. They only flatter you.
Players also only want one thing, so recognize if the conversation always turns to a sexual conversation, see how fast he starts talking about sex or if hes always asking from you to do something sexual with him or even if hes always asking you to take a dirty picture for him. DON’T be fooled this does NOT mean that he likes you he just wants one thing from you then leave you…
Also remember that some guys will lead you on because they are LOSERS and have nothing better to do, this can also be recognized by him being all talk and no action as well or him acting like a boyfriend but never actually asks you to be his girlfriend.
He also may be acting like he likes you when he see’s you or takes you on one date but then after that he never calls you or see’s you and you haven’t seen him for days (this means that he doesn't care and is NOT worth you time).
And never talk to him again!!! if you see him again and he try’s to talk to you, IGNORE HIM !!!
And let me just remind you one more time that IF A GUY LIKES YOU, HE WILL PUT IN EFFORT, HE WILL SHOW YOU. He will call you, and see you and want to spend as much time as he can with you. He will put in the same effort and give you the same attention that you give him. REMEMBER if a guy likes you he will want to be with you always.
